Empowering Parents to Influence Their Teens
Sam Mbeki isn’t just a parenting coach—he’s a pilot, author, and visionary who dedicates his life to transforming teenage challenges into opportunities for deeper connection. For over 15 years, he’s worked hands-on with families, equipping parents to see their teens through fresh eyes and build trust, respect, and lasting bonds.
Sam’s journey began when financial hurdles forced him to miss two school terms, nearly ending his education. A teacher’s life-changing mentorship propelled him from potential dropout to pilot, earning a finance degree from the cockpit and igniting a passion for mentoring teens and equipping the parents. His books—TeenSage, the TeenSage Facilitator’s Manual, and Winning with Your Teen—capture that mission, underscored by his belief: “Empowered Parents Empower Teens.”
In addition to life coaching and counselling certifications, Sam is trained in Habitudes (Growing Leaders) and ROPES® (Tanari Trust). These tools help parents become the most influential figures in their teens’ lives, turning family conflicts into victories. Beyond writing, he has led teen classes, organized camps, and spoken at numerous events, weaving practical experience with a deep drive to make a real difference. He is the founder of Zidi Mentors an organization that works with schools to reignite their students drive to excel through mentorship programmes.
Sam invites you to reimagine your parenting journey—to see your teen as a budding adult and forge a relationship built on mutual respect and genuine connection. By partnering with him, you can lower anxiety, deepen bonds, and help your teen flourish in every aspect of life.
Frequently Asked Questions
It’s a structured yet personal approach to help you strengthen communication, build trust, and effectively guide your teen. I provide practical strategies, clear steps, and continuous support.
Sessions can be held virtually or in-person (if location permits). This flexibility allows parents to get the support they need, wherever they are.
My primary focus is empowering you as the parent to influence your teen. In some cases, teens may join certain sessions or workshops, but we’ll decide together what’s most beneficial.
No one can guarantee teen behaviour, but I’m committed to ensuring you see value. If something truly isn’t working, we’ll adjust methods or discuss refund policies outlined in your coaching agreement.
Coaching is forward-focused and solution-oriented. While I’m trained in counselling fundamentals, my role is not to diagnose but to guide you in building stronger connections and influence with your teen.
Yes, I sometimes run workshops or group sessions where parents share experiences and learn from each other. Keep an eye on my website for upcoming group offerings.